Someone cuts in front of you and robs that parking space. A co-worker shoots down your idea at a meeting. The guy ahead of you in line for coffee chats on his cell phone, oblivious to the person waiting to take his order. Whatever happened to common courtesy?
Before you start to fume, remember that, even though we all get mad at times, it rarely gets us anywhere. Being nice, on the other hand, makes you feel good. It can also improve your health, attract kindness from others, and to help you achieve your goals – including your business goals.
I hope I’ve not lost my cool in the one year I’ve been in office. There have been times I felt like lashing out at a couple of Rotarians but I’ve refrain from it. It would be disastrous, if I had done it. We’re victims of stress in this fast-pace world. Stress destroys friendship. There must be a way to cope with stress. Take a deep breath or go for a walk is an immediate remedy for stress.
Let us do Rotary work with joy. Try not to jump at Rotarians who may have different views. Control yourself and smile.